Everyone has disappointing sex. What’s important is how you respond. Read Dr. Bird’s top suggestions for how to handle sex that doesn’t go well and how to stay connected instead of getting frustrated.

The clitoris is more than a “button.” Learn the full anatomy, how arousal works, and why clitoral stimulation—not the G-spot—is key to pleasure.

Talking about sex can feel awkward or overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. Learn practical tips from a sex therapist and communication strategies for navigating sensitive conversations and building a healthier, more connected sexual relationship.

Pelvic and genital pain can happen during sexual activity or even everyday activities, and anyone can experience it. In this post, I discuss why an interdisciplinary approach matters and how therapy can help you reduce pain, cope, rebuild pleasure, and explore new ways of connecting.

Your car won’t go if the brake is on…even if you’re revving the engine.

The issue of sexual desire is usually about something else.

Just because two people feel safe and connected doesn’t mean that their sex life will be amazing. In fact, it can be especially hard to view your partner in an erotic way when you are so familiar and close.

Different types of touch to stay connected.

How to practice mindful touch. It’s not about relaxation.

How to stop performing and start enjoying. In our blog we talk about sex and therapy (two things many people are told not to talk about) - come check it out.